Mediation is the process in which a trained neutral person, called a mediator, facilitates the resolution of a dispute between two or more parties. Mediation is non-adversarial with the objective of helping the parties reach a mutually acceptable agreement.

Mediation can be used to resolve any dispute but most commonly is used in family/divorce matters and civil/commercial matters. There are many advantages in using mediation in place of the legal proceedings where the parties become adversaries.

What Does the Mediator Do?

• Explains the mediation process
• Provides a supportive, non-confrontational setting in which to negotiate
• Assists the parties to understand and analyze the facts and issues
• Keeps the parties focused on the issues
• Helps the parties gain control of their dispute
• Facilitates creative and cost-effective solutions

Family and Divorce Mediation

Mediation is most commonly used when a couple has decided to divorce and wants to control the process. In every divorce, the parties must:

• Restructure the family unit – Parties must reach agreements on issues such as living arrangements for the children, child care, parenting, parent access, and education
• Address financial issues – Both spouses must plan their financial futures and decide how their children will be supported, whether either spouse needs support (alimony), how property such as homes, bank accounts, pensions, retirement accounts, and investments will be divided.
• Follow state law and court procedures – The State of New Jersey has enacted laws and the courts have rendered decisions and issued procedures that set out the rights of the various parties involved in a divorce.

The mediator, through training and specialized knowledge, facilitates the parties in addressing all of these matters. Where appropriate, the mediator may recommend that the parties also use the services of experts in addressing specific issues.

Mediation may also be used in family matters such as pre-nuptial agreements, grandparent issues, domestic partnerships, and post-divorce disputes.

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